Farewell
Death is part of life, but saying goodbye is often difficult.
A memorial ceremony creates space for grief, memories and gratitude. It helps us to create a dignified farewell that provides comfort and honors the life of the deceased.
A free funeral offers the opportunity to design individual and personal farewell ceremonies without being bound to religious requirements. This is particularly important for people who do not belong to a religious community or who want an alternative form of farewell.
Why a free funeral?
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Individual design: The focus is on the life and personality of the deceased. Music, literature and personal speeches can be freely chosen and integrated to create an authentic and meaningful ceremony.
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Flexibility in choosing the location: Free funerals can take place in various locations, be it in municipal cemeteries, burial forests or other meaningful places. This makes it possible to say goodbye in an environment that is particularly dear to the deceased and those left behind.
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Personal rituals: Without fixed religious rituals, there is freedom to incorporate one's own symbols and actions into the ceremony, which can support the individual farewell and facilitate the grieving process.
Through these freedoms, a free funeral enables a dignified and personal farewell that meets the individual wishes and ideas of the deceased and his or her relatives.
Planning process
Planning a free funeral with a freelance speaker takes place in several steps in order to create a personal and dignified farewell ceremony.
Non-binding introductory meeting: In an initial meeting we get to know each other and discuss your ideas and wishes for the funeral service. This conversation serves to determine whether the chemistry is right and whether I can fulfill your expectations.
Funeral conversation: In a detailed conversation that lasts about 2 to 3 hours, we talk about the life of the deceased. Several relatives or close friends can be present to share memories and anecdotes. This conversation forms the basis for an individual and sensitive eulogy.
Design of the ceremony: Based on the funeral conversation, I will design a personal speech that honors the life and character of the deceased. We will discuss the ceremony sequence, select suitable pieces of music and, if desired, integrate rituals or contributions from family members and friends.
Coordination with the funeral home: I coordinate with the funeral home and cemetery staff to ensure the funeral service runs smoothly. This includes organizing technology, music and other logistical details.
Conducting the funeral service: On the day of the funeral, I lead the ceremony, lead through the program and give the eulogy. The ceremony usually lasts about 20 to 35 minutes. My goal is to create a dignified and comforting farewell that honors the deceased and comforts those left behind.